How to Strip Tease for your Lover

Ever wanted to give your lover a great strip tease, but didn't know where to begin? Let's get started.

Plan Your Strip Tease

Every great event comes with some thoughtful planning. First, choose your music. Be sure to consider both of your tastes, as the music will set the mood for each of you. Pick something a bit slow, but with a good beat. Have 2-3 songs. The first 2 are for the tease and the last for the lap dance.

Next pick your clothing, in layers. Start with your final layer, and work your way out. You want something that will drive your partner wild, so choose something like this lace bikini set or this lace top & shorts. For your outer layer, anything goes, but have fun with it! Maybe a little costume fantasy like a sexy schoolgirl or a nurse? Don't forget to accessorise with things like a tie or glasses to complete the look, stockings, and of course, shoes (just make sure you can dance in them).

Practice Your Strip Tease

Don't worry, this doesn't have to be an award winning performance. Just put on the clothes, play the music, and come up with the basics of your dance. Try to think of what you can do with the items your taking off. Make yourself comfortable doing the moves, and you're ready to go!

Performing Your Strip Tease

Don't be nervous, this is fun! If you feel hot and sexy doing this, so will your lover. Remember, your partner already finds you sexy, so this will just heighten it!

Set a mood with some lighting. Candles or dimming the lights is perfect. Turn on the music, and just move to it a bit, keeping within touching distance of your lover.

Start with something small, like your hat or a glove. Take it off slowly and purposefully, and tossing it at your lover (lightly). Move on to whatever you choose except your stockings and your shoes. These should stay on until the end.

Remember, this is a strip tease so remove your clothes slowly. Unbutton your blouse and only let a part of your body show. Give your lover a quick peek, and then close your blouse. Turn around and show off your back, letting the shirt slowly just fall down to your wrists, being sure to look over your shoulder. Do the same with your skirt, lifting it just a bit for a peek, bending in such a way... but always make your lover wait, and always toss the removed clothing at your audience.

Keep moving and dancing. Close your eyes and move your hands over your body, just focusing on what feels good, not what you think will look good. This is when something like a tie comes in handy. It draws attention to your breasts, and as you take it off and seductively wrap and pull it around your body, his/her jaw will be on the floor.

Take your stockings off very slowly, either propping your leg on something like the arm of the chair or by turning around and bending over. Once you get to your ankle, slide your shoe off long enough to get the stocking off, then put your shoes back on and continue dancing. You are in the last layer of clothes, so this is a good time to give a lap dance. Let your lover touch your thighs while you move against their body. Move his/her hands wherever you will allow, and then put them back on the arms of the chair. Be sure to let all of your luscious parts rub against your lover, and start to undress them a bit.

Now that drool is beginning to form, let your lover know the teasing is over by doing something like licking from their stomach up to their mouth, ending with a kiss. Your lover is putty in your hands!