Cunnilingus, Eating Pussy, Muff-Diving, or as I like to call it, Doin' the Dew. Think your woman is satisfied with intercourse alone? Think again. I know some men who would tell you, "Show me a man who doesn't eat pussy, and I'll show you a woman I can have!" Too smelly, takes too long, too complicated? Read on, my friend, help is on the way.
Frankly, most men I've known have no idea what they're doing down there, most women I've spoken with have never had an (actual) orgasm from their partner, and...do I dare say it... some women I know don't even want it. This is so sad to me, you ladies don't even realize the ecstasy you are missing! So, I've written this article to influence the world that eating pussy can be great!
Cunnilingus Basics
Before I get into doin' the Dew, I want to touch on receiving it. Ladies, you need to relax. Don't worry about how you look, how you smell, how you taste, or anything else. Just lay back and enjoy yourself. Sometimes it helps a lot to fantasize about something that turns you on, your partner won't even know. If you aren't in the right mindset, this can mess up the whole experience, and you are likely to not orgasm.
Ok, first things first, be clean. This will elude any odor or taste fears. A good way to accomplish this without offending anyone is to take a shower together, then it can become part of foreplay.
Get comfortable, get her in the mood, sweet talk her, touch her body. Women are very emotional beings, and even if the physical sensation is satisfactory, she could miss out on an orgasm just due to how she feels or what she's thinking.
Remember that there are very little nerve endings in the vaginal walls, so where you want to focus your tongue's attention is the clitoris and outer areas of the vagina. If you want to stimulate her internally, it's your finger's pressure on her G-Spot that will drive her wild.
Cunnilingus Techniques
Make sure anything about to touch the clitoris is nice and wet. The clit is your friend; it has more nerve endings than the entire penis, so be gentle. Vary your movements, as the same motion for too long will desensitize your partner.
Start out gently. The clitoris is very sensitive at first. As it becomes aroused, you can apply more pressure.
Play with it! Make it fun! Lick it, kiss it, nibble it, suck it, blow on it. Also, a little teasing by kissing other areas of the body such as the inner thighs is quite exciting.
Stimulating the G-Spot can cause an immediate orgasm. Insert a finger or two and make a "come hither" motion, applying pressure on the upper wall of the vagina. I actually find a thumb seems to hit just the right spot.
Inserting a finger just slightly into the anus can be highly arousing, and can cause an explosive orgasm. Some women are turned off by this, though, so if this is the case, try applying slight pressure on the perineum just before the anus, as this can cause the same effect.
When you have a rhythm that's working and getting her close, stick with it. I find the orgasms are harder when you don't speed up, but keep at the same speed all through the orgasm.
Pay attention to how your partner is reacting to you. Heavy breathing, wriggling, and leg tension are all signs that she's getting hot. When this happens, don't stop doing what you're doing, as these are signs that an orgasm is approaching. Continue to stimulate her while she climaxes, and if she moves around, move with her, as this will let the orgasm go to it's full term. Remember that women usually have much longer orgasms than men, and can experience waves that last several minutes. You will know when she's had enough, many women get over-sensitive after they orgasm and may push you away suddenly.
Everyone is different. Communication is the most important part of sex. Talk to your partner about her likes and dislikes and you'll make her cum every time!
Better Sex TipsDoin' the Dew- Guide to Cunnilingus Techniques - by SweetSpicy
