So you're comfortable with blowjobs, but you need some advanced moves to enhance your play. Of course, we're here to help. If you need a refresher in fellatio basics, check out our previous article, Giving Good Head.
Lick his cock like a lollipop. This is good for a visual as well as physical pleasure. Make your tongue flat and run it from his balls to the tip of the penis. Yum!
Wrap your lips firmly around the shaft of the penis as far down as you can while your tongue can still reach the head. Slightly sucking, flutter your tongue against the tip and run it up and down the shaft.
Take him in as far as you can, and with your nose, trace a Figure 8 as if it was laying on its side, so you're moving in long strokes.
Starting at the base, have your mouth slightly open and breathe in as you move up to the head, and breathe out as you come back down. This is a good move for when you need to stop stimulation momentarily.
One of my favorites would have to be "torture". When he is getting really hot and close to orgasm, stop for a moment and do something else, just until the feeling passes, then get him back there. Do this about three or four times and he'll be begging to cum! Don't worry, the nice hard orgasm he'll have will be worth it.
Deep Throating
Of course I saved the best for last - deepthroating. Keep in mind, this is something that may have to be practiced for a long time, but it's well worth the effort. You have to condition your throat muscles in order to expand them more easily. I would suggest practicing with a realistic dong until you start to get the hang of it, since you will most likely have trouble at first, while removing any inhibitions.
Three important things to remember: position, breathing, and lubrication. You have to position yourself so that your throat is in a straight line. This can be done with 69, or you can straddle your partner with your back to him. Remember that everyone's different, and the penis has to curve down your throat, so even kneeling in front of him may work, depending on which way he curves. When you master deepthroating, you may feel comfortable in a more submissive position, letting him control the movements. Breathe through your nose, exhaling as you take him in, and exhaling as his penis comes out of your throat. I suggest using a good lubricant, as it will make the penis sliding down your throat much easier.
Ready to try? Open your mouth, stick out your tongue as far as you can and flatten it. Slowly slide the penis into your mouth. When you get to the back of your throat, you may feel like you want to gag. Try to stop where you are for a moment, and start over. You want to open your throat, as if you were yawning or half swallowing, to avoid gagging, so just relax and try to concentrate on how your throat feels. I would not recommend numbing gel for deepthroating, until you are really comfortable, as you need to learn to control your muscles to really master this technique. When you can handle the penis being at the back of your throat, it's time to actually deepthroat it. You will have to slightly force the penis into your throat, and it may help you to work it in using your tongue. Just remember to keep your throat open and your tongue out, and if you need to gag, try to combat it instead of backing off. Eventually you will be able to take the penis in all the way, and that's when you can practice your speed. You want to work up to where deepthroating can be easily incorporated into a regular blowjob, without losing your rhythm.
When you have mastered the deepthroat, you can try swallowing while he is in your throat, giving his penis a "throat massage". You should also be able to lick his balls when your mouth is at the base, provided you are in the right position. Something that is sometimes hard to focus on, but makes all the difference, is keeping your lips firm and using your tongue.
Hopefully some of these techniques will give you enough variety and stimulation to please your man. Remember that everyone's different, but in all cases, practice makes perfect!
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Advanced Fellatio Techniques - by SweetSpicy
